To be used in conjunction with section 5.4e of the guide
Questions to support learning facilitation and check understanding
- Tell me about a time when you could have used this technique in the past?
- If you had this knowledge in the past, how could this have helped you to understand (your behaviour, your partner, etc.)?
- Using your own words, please summarise the key points we have been discussing during this session/ activity.
- What is the most important learning you have taken from today, and why?
- If you were going to teach somebody else about this topic, what would you tell them?
- Which aspects of our discussions feel similar to your experiences within your own relationship(s) and which feel different?
- Can you think of a time when understanding this earlier might have changed how you responded?
- What situations from your past come to mind now that you’ve explored this idea?
- How does this relate to what you’ experience/your life?
- How would you explain this idea in your own words?
- What part of this learning feels most useful or important to you personally?
- Can you describe how this topic applies specifically to your own situation/life?
- What’s one thing you will do differently now, based on what you’ve learned?
- How could you apply what you have learned to your daily life and relationships?
- If you were to use this strategy next week, what would that look like?
- If you had to give someone advice based on what you’ve learned, what would it be?
- What felt most surprising or unexpected during this session
- Which parts of what we discussed reflect your own experiences—and which don’t?
- How is your experience similar to different from the examples we’ve looked at?